I love my life..
i love these small small changes in my life which teach me such big lessons in life..
but, here i don't know that why does one has to go through a failure to learn something big..
i know that these failures are inevitable and act as a catalyst towards one's success but, why only me??
i mean why do i have to learn everything and others get everything so easily??
am i GOd's favourite child??
ha! i think this is the best way to soothe oneself.
but, should i believe it?? trust me, i really don't know!!
i think those who get everything very easily-they are god's favourite child! definitely not me.
i know that with these small failures i can achieve something really big, but, what about that temporary depression which i have to go through??
Doesn't God see that?? doesn't he see that his so called"favourite child" is in pain and need some reassurance that everything will go fine in her life. i am tired of fighting with this pain and depression. i want to just get out of it.
no matter how many fake smiles i give no matter how many fake laughs i deliver no matter how optimistic i try to potray myself... but, from inside i know what i am going through...
people say- don't be scared of failure just do your best and leave the rest...
i think its all crappy.. what do you expect from me??
i should work really hard to achieve something and then later on when i don't get it, i should forget it and move ahead?? really??
is it that easy to forget??
well, these questions will keep bothering me and i don't know that when will i get the answers to them.. but, as for now i just know one thing and that is- its my life and i have to live it!!
Wednesday, April 2, 2008
Monday, March 3, 2008
A hypocritical transition!!
It’s fun to see people who are in love or should I say who are “going around”. Well, I am sorry if I’ll offend anybody’s feelings over here. But, being a person who is very much a single and is obviously an outsider to all these feelings, such things really amuses me. Infact, I would be lying if I’ll say that these things bore me or irritate me. Honestly, they entertain me. When I see a couple feeding each other in a restaurant or showing some funny affection in public, I totally and completely break into splits.
It’s a mantra of every single that being single is fun. At least you can take your own decisions, you can enjoy your independence and most importantly you don’t have any emotional baggage to carry. But, the question is, do we say these things just to please ourselves or do we really believe in it?
What’s even funnier is when my friends who are not single come and discuss their love life with me. Obviously, I listen to them very patiently and uncomplainingly. But, honestly they bore me. And one thing which really interests me is to see the transition in my friend who once used to think on the same track as I think of at the moment. And here the question which really bothers me is that how can one change his/her beliefs so easily?
Therefore,finally I came to the conclusion that for every single, life is fun and cool. Whereas, for every person who is in love- life is beautiful and becomes cute.
In short, each one us has to go through this “HYPOCRITICAL” transition.
It’s a mantra of every single that being single is fun. At least you can take your own decisions, you can enjoy your independence and most importantly you don’t have any emotional baggage to carry. But, the question is, do we say these things just to please ourselves or do we really believe in it?
What’s even funnier is when my friends who are not single come and discuss their love life with me. Obviously, I listen to them very patiently and uncomplainingly. But, honestly they bore me. And one thing which really interests me is to see the transition in my friend who once used to think on the same track as I think of at the moment. And here the question which really bothers me is that how can one change his/her beliefs so easily?
Therefore,finally I came to the conclusion that for every single, life is fun and cool. Whereas, for every person who is in love- life is beautiful and becomes cute.
In short, each one us has to go through this “HYPOCRITICAL” transition.
Wednesday, February 27, 2008
Is it good to forgive and forget??
It is a very popular saying that one should always forgive and forget the mistakes of people. But, this statement always intrigues me. Well, I have a tendency to forgive and as well as forget the mistakes of my friends and families. But at times, this habit of mine really bothers me. And that’s how this question occurred to me.
Well, I am not a fool out here who always avoid the mistakes made by a person again and again. Even I have my limit of tolerance. Beyond that limit I simply discard that person’s existence from my life and move forward. Well that’s not a problem. But one thing which troubles me is the initial stage of that tolerance. When one of my friend hurts me I get little detached from that person for a while but, after a while I rebound back and forget everything. But, later on when that same friend of mine commits the same mistake I again get hurt but, this time I get a bit agitated as well. I regret my decision of forgetting everything and at the same time get a little saddened because of my this so called, “Generous” habit.
I also know that one of the major key to my happiness is my belief in this saying. Holding grudges against someone cannot help one to stay happy and peaceful. According to me, one should be given a benefit of doubt and obviously a second chance. But, what if that second chance proves to be a debacle? Infact, you’ll be taken by surprise if I’ll tell you that I still bury the hatchet. But, I really don’t know that whether it is a nice habit or I am just a fool who doesn’t know how to identify people properly.
But, in the end i can only conclude my this confusing blog by saying that one should be given a second chance in life. We should forgive and forget but, if that second chance turns to be disastrous then instead of repenting over our decision we should simply move ahead in life and should develop an INDIFFERENT attitude towards that person. Atleast by this way i'll not bother myself....
Well, I am not a fool out here who always avoid the mistakes made by a person again and again. Even I have my limit of tolerance. Beyond that limit I simply discard that person’s existence from my life and move forward. Well that’s not a problem. But one thing which troubles me is the initial stage of that tolerance. When one of my friend hurts me I get little detached from that person for a while but, after a while I rebound back and forget everything. But, later on when that same friend of mine commits the same mistake I again get hurt but, this time I get a bit agitated as well. I regret my decision of forgetting everything and at the same time get a little saddened because of my this so called, “Generous” habit.
I also know that one of the major key to my happiness is my belief in this saying. Holding grudges against someone cannot help one to stay happy and peaceful. According to me, one should be given a benefit of doubt and obviously a second chance. But, what if that second chance proves to be a debacle? Infact, you’ll be taken by surprise if I’ll tell you that I still bury the hatchet. But, I really don’t know that whether it is a nice habit or I am just a fool who doesn’t know how to identify people properly.
But, in the end i can only conclude my this confusing blog by saying that one should be given a second chance in life. We should forgive and forget but, if that second chance turns to be disastrous then instead of repenting over our decision we should simply move ahead in life and should develop an INDIFFERENT attitude towards that person. Atleast by this way i'll not bother myself....
Thursday, February 14, 2008
Appreciate what you've got,,,,,
It is really sad to see people who never appreciate what they have. Who always long for something better and in return forget what they already have. Who always cast covetous eye over the lives of other people and forget to live their life happily. Here, I am not referring to those people who cannot fulfill there basic needs or who cannot even have the three basic meals of the day. I am just talking about those fortunate people who have everything to be glad about, but do not recognize the value of their life.
People should understand that whatever happens in life, it happens because they deserve it, they should not call it LUCK. If sachin tendulkar scores a century in a match then it means that he had put in his best efforts while playing the game, not because his luck was on his side. Always remember one thing - LUCK IS WHEN PREPARATION MEETS OPPORTUNITY. You get what you deserve and incase you feel that you could have got the same thing in a better manner then wait patiently, who knows, may be God has something better in store for you. But, at the same time, appreciate what you have got instead of castigating it.
Here I would like to explain my point more properly by giving a very pragmatic example-
You would always like to help somebody who would appreciate your attempt instead of that person who would find faults and depreciate your gesture. It is a human tendency to love the person who loves you back.
Similarly, life likes to reward only those who appreciate their wins even if it is small, but not those who admonish every opportunity. Accept everything which happens in your life as a gift from God. And if you do not approve of something then try to change it, work on it, instead of complaining and blaming your luck. Always have a positive attitude towards life. Celebrate your small victories and prepare for the next big challenge. In the end, I would just like to say- Appreciate and respect your life, rest, GOD will take care of.
People should understand that whatever happens in life, it happens because they deserve it, they should not call it LUCK. If sachin tendulkar scores a century in a match then it means that he had put in his best efforts while playing the game, not because his luck was on his side. Always remember one thing - LUCK IS WHEN PREPARATION MEETS OPPORTUNITY. You get what you deserve and incase you feel that you could have got the same thing in a better manner then wait patiently, who knows, may be God has something better in store for you. But, at the same time, appreciate what you have got instead of castigating it.
Here I would like to explain my point more properly by giving a very pragmatic example-
You would always like to help somebody who would appreciate your attempt instead of that person who would find faults and depreciate your gesture. It is a human tendency to love the person who loves you back.
Similarly, life likes to reward only those who appreciate their wins even if it is small, but not those who admonish every opportunity. Accept everything which happens in your life as a gift from God. And if you do not approve of something then try to change it, work on it, instead of complaining and blaming your luck. Always have a positive attitude towards life. Celebrate your small victories and prepare for the next big challenge. In the end, I would just like to say- Appreciate and respect your life, rest, GOD will take care of.
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